My traveling, downsizing, and living in a van is in response to many things that I experienced over the past few years. Here are a few:
My experiences owning a junk removal company
I spent 7 years of people paying my franchise to remove and haul away items from their house. Especially when the items were in perfectly good shape and could continue to be used. Let that sink in. We donated or recycled over 75% of the items but I was always shocked at how many things people owned but didn’t need.
I was also surprised at the number of items that were still ‘new in the box’ or never opened that we hauled away. It shows you that items are sold at such a low price that people don’t think twice about getting rid of an item that they never even used!
Living in a condo
I purchased a 2 bed/2 bath condo in late 2008. It was a steal but I quickly realized that I didn’t spend much time in my condo. I never got a television or cable and it was 30 minutes from downtown Denver so friends never came to visit.
My daily schedule dictated that I leave my condo between 6-8am and return between 8-9pm each day. I used my condo just as a place to sleep for 8-10 hours a day. That’s when I started to think about not commuting each day to my office and being truly mobile.
My high school years
I wholeheartedly believe that the job of a parent is to raise their kids to become independent, self-reliant adults. I feel that my parents did a wonderful job of this because at 15 years old, I felt like I could take on the world. I bristled at authority and being told ‘No, you can’t do that’ – I would often disobey my parents and do what I wanted to do.
My high school years felt like I was biding my time to get to college and then the ‘real world’. It was a time that I felt that I didn’t have much control over my life and was constantly yearning for freedom. Many young people see the the ‘real world’ as a scary place, but for me, it’s the most freedom I’ve ever felt in my life. I could do what I wanted – no expectations and your choices could forge your own path.
These experiences had been bouncing around inside of me for years and finally manifested itself after my talk with my coach in my #vanlife. I still may not know exactly what I’m going to do with my life, but at least I feel like I have the freedom and autonomy to choose how and where I live.